Wednesday, May 23, 2007

court +8




look. chickens.


washing up.

Yay! We made it to and are halfway through day 3 this week. Hump day. It feels good to have finished one more day of traveling out to Boyarka by train. Today is the hottest day yet – it was predicted to get to 35C (Lesya just told us it hit 36C today). Yesterday on the train with the breeze from the windows and our location in the train (quite shaded), I actually felt quite cool and had to snuggle in to Darren a bit (that hasn’t happened a lot lately!). However today, even though we were in the same location and the windows were mostly all open – there was no coolness to be found in the breeze. Not a good sign for the rest of the day when it’s 9:30 AM (unless you are Brendan!). We got to the orphanage to find that all four groups that are usually outside at that time were already there – and most of the kids were only in underwear and hats (another testament to how hot it was!). We headed over to Ivanna’s group and she came straight over for a hug – I love that! We spent our time swinging (big surprise), going for a walk in the stroller (trying to find shade!), watching the chickens (a lovely, very shady spot – we encouraged her to stay, even though the birds are creepy), having snack and drink (one minor and brief choking incident as Ivanna gulped down some juice too quickly – it helped to clear her nose though – snot everywhere!) and then also spent a little time around her group. Her caregiver (the same one who let us stick around yesterday) asked (I think) if we wanted to stay around the group and I indicated that that was great. It’s fun to watch her with her caregivers and little friends. She took advantage of her freedom and soon wandered into other areas and headed up to the top of a slide that was in full sun. Darren at this point had headed inside with Tatiana to get some documents for Slava, so it was up to mama to follow her up (Daddy’s been the slide guy so far!). It was blistering up there and when Ivanna made a move to go down the slide I checked the temperature and promptly picked her up and took her back down the stairs (even too hot for my bottom with pants on!). She wasn’t too thrilled but was distracted by the snacks and juice I offered her (in the shade – beautiful shade). All too quickly the groups were all heading in and we followed a few minutes later (Ivanna wasn’t too pleased at first - she loves to be out). We got to stick around again to watch the post play-time wash-up and potty time. The same caregiver had fun with the kids sprinkling them with water and they all just giggled and had a blast – she’s really great with the kids. I managed to get a quick picture of her with Ivanna (our batteries are dying on our camera) – unfortunately, I’m not the steadiest and so it’s a little out of focus. Next time I’ll give the camera to Darren! On the train home (it was late again – more what we are used to), a young man was asleep across the bench we were standing beside. A couple of babushkas across from him tried to wake him up by poking him – no luck. They tried again every few minutes – it was pretty funny to watch them - they were obviously unimpressed with his behaviour and weren’t exactly gentle in their attempts to wake him! Eventually one of his legs fell off the seat and he woke up briefly – they made it quite clear to him that he should sit up (and wipe off the seat his shoes had dirtied) so that we could sit down (which he did). He promptly fell right back to sleep with his head lolling backward. The train is certainly never boring if you like to people watch! Being as hot as it has been and continues to be, the scents of the train were somewhat stronger and more ‘ripe’ today. Darren was creeped out by a guy who stood next to him with his shirt undone and fully open, allowing his ample belly to hang out, pressing against his shoulder. He considered getting up to let the man sit down but thankfully reconsidered that option when he realized this fellow would then be sitting next to ME (thank you!!!). He sacrificially remained a gallant barrier between me and the guy, and eventually, the man found another place to rest his belly (a seat away from us). On our way home we stopped at the ‘dungeon’ internet place to briefly check our email. It only costs 1hryvna ($0.20)for 15 minutes – I spent most of the time standing next to the air conditioner which was blowing out beautifully cold air! It might just be worth paying to be able to hang out down there – whether we want to use the internet or not….or maybe we could take this opportunity to get hooked on computer games and spend our hot afternoons down there (who really needs to sight-see anymore?)! We were much cooler when we left there and headed home (but still both had cold showers and again I’m sitting in my bathing suit). The apartment has hit 28.4C (but I think first thing this morning it was 28.9C) – it seems to be climbing a little more (overall) each day. Hopefully this heat wave will break soon and bring some more reasonable temperatures our way (if only we could find a happy medium between Saskatoon temperatures and here)! We’re hanging out here, waiting for Lesya (she has to pick up some $ for the apartment) then we plan to ‘cook’ tonight (that will likely consist of opening some jars of sauce and getting some bread – too hot to actually turn on the stove!) then head to Mario’s for dessert. This has so far been a good week. We are feeling very grateful that we’ve had such good visits with Ivanna, that the trains have been quite bearable this week (despite the heat) and that we have made it to Wednesday. We are finding the commute and visits tiring and we are soooo ready to have our daughter with us.


We hope (?plan) to be a little more adventurous tomorrow afternoon and try to get to the ‘Caves Monastery’ (maybe the underground caves will be cool!). Have a great day! Paka.

7 comments:

Ivanna's uncle said...

I'd certainly take a few days of that kind of heat, though not too long of a stretch. Hopefully you'll get a break from the heat soon. It is great to hear about the kids' caregivers treating them all so lovingly. The right people in the right position make all the difference in the world.
Sophia (Olya's sister) stopped by today. She is going to S. Africa to work in an orphanage this fall. Very cool. This morning we also had missionaries to/from Afganistan showing pictures of the orphanages there. It really is amazing that there are so many children growing up in these places...
ah life. Am I doing my part?
On that note, my boys have been rather sick (Misha had a fever last night) and so bedtimes have been tough. Play time is so much more fun (generally) when i don't have to enforce so much. I think I get enough of it at school, such that discipline at home is really not...fun(horrible word choice, but whadoyado). The boys are really excited about play time with Ivanna though, and i look forward to it too. There is much fun and even joy to find with little children and they certainly bring wtih them a great perspective on what matters (love and enjoyment) and what does not ($ and an always tidy house).

Stay cool. Ice cream.
jonathan

Tanis said...

Jonathan beat me to it. Ah well.

Sounds like another good (hot) day with your Ivanna. Great to hear you go another look into her secret world.

Liked the train story. Those babushkas are relentless. I can just picture the not so gentle poking, prodding, huffing and the rough sounding language. Glad you got to sit. Sorry to hear about the sweaty, hairy stomach in your space. All part of the sights and smells of the experience.

Love you three. Talk to you soon.

Tanis

Carala said...

Can you believe you'll soon be home? What a great adventure you've all been on to get you to this place. Once you get Ivanna in your arms forever you will never be able to imagine life without her. That this was all meant to be and that God is truly the designer of all things, all situations and especially sweet little darling Ivanna. How blessed you are to to have a little girl to love you the rest of your life!

It's been a few days since I felt tears about to roll...but today is one of those days.(maybe it's the rain!) You guys remind me daily to be so thankful for my family, my boys. I just think of all you've gone through to get to this point and I really commend you for your perseverence and courage and most importantly your continued trust in God. Thank you both for sharing so readily your journey with all of us.

....Carala(for my boys)

Dave and Hilda said...

Hi there,
Remember the cool breezes in Ireland last May?? Try thinking of that when you are on the sweaty train!! (Hard to believe that was just a year ago when you were over here!! so much has/is changing since then). All well here, like you, we are counting the days to our trip home. We are trying to prepare Anna ! telling her that people say things slightly differently in Canada i.e pants and trousers (which she enjoyed!) so every now and again she asks about various words. "Do they say "tree" in Canada?" !! Hopefully she will end up bilingual! As always it is great to hear and feel your growing sense of family. Take care of yourselves through this last bit which is probably dragging...much love to you! H.

Sam and Evelyn said...

In your pictures today, even Ivanna looked rather warm! I wish you more moderate temperatures in the days to come. I heard that we even have a risk of frost here tonight (and I just brought your plants out of the garage yesterday because I thought they would like a bit more light than they get from the garage window!) Oh well we will watch the forcasts more carefully, and may have to move them back to the safety of more shelter. In fact, it is so cool that I have no desire to get the pool working, even tho' I know now is the best time to get it circulating at least.

If you don't go out to the orphanage on Saturday, you will only have two more train trips without Ivanna. Will you use the car and driver to get her on Monday, and will you have Slava or Lesya with you?

The caves will most certainly be cooler, so a good choice of sight seeing destination.

We are thinking of you constantly, with love to all of you, Mom and Dad

Val said...

Kids in underwear and hats. It just makes you want to set up a sprinkler for them, doesn't it?

Happy hump day! Just two more 'regular' visits to the orphanage, then a weekend to celebrate just the two of you, a few days with Ivanna all to yourselves and then on your way home! :)

As we count down with you we'll be enjoying your shower tomorrow evening and a planting bee for you on Saturday. Although it's not supposed to be super warm here, the drizzly days are supposed to end soon.

Stay hydrated and cool!
Talk to you soon (hopefully we have better luck getting through to you than we did last weekend).

kathryn said...

Hi you guys,
We were thinking of you lots last night. There was a couple from the Ukraine (3 months here)at the Stollery with their little one. We had tea with them once the kids were down, and I went with the mom to check out the blog. I'd love to say her name, but really in the midst of the no sleep time, I didn't retain it. Her aunt works at an orphanage just outside of Kiev, so she was interested to go back to the original blog to see if she recognized the name. Alas, no luck, but still very wonderful to sit and read the blog from the beginning. It has been amazing.

Liam's surgery went well, they pulled the nail out and refitted the kidneys, so hopefully we will be infection free forever. He was up most of the night with catheter issues and other terrible feeling things, but had a much better day today. We are ever thankful he is who he is.

Enjoy the last little while, don't melt.
Kath